Ladies, this is your turn to know that if you liked him on the date, he also did the same to you. The following tips will show you how to judge that he want to be with you again and again.
After Date Follow up
The follow-up after a first date is rarely as simple as: “I like you, I had fun, let’s get together again. ” First, there are layers of meaning in texts to unpack coupled with the actual timing: who reaches out first and how quickly does the other person respond? The moment he checks on you after that date and he calls, know you trapped him, get the move on.
Completing the Date
Low bar, we know, but hear us out. While the act of simply seeing the date through to its end may seem like an obligation for most people, there exceptional dating disasters where a guy simply has to cut it short for his own sanity. Most people are courteous enough to do the absolute minimum on a date finish whatever activity you’re doing together and devote sufficient time out of respect for the other person, so provided your date’s not running out with an ‘emergency text from a roommate.’
Wanting More One-on-One Time
When your date wants to spend time with you alone instead of calling in backup for a group date, it likely means that he’s comfortable around you and wants to spend more time getting to know you. “One tactic to combat a boring date,” “is calling in ‘reinforcement ‘ friends” as social buffers. “I’m naturally talkative with those around me, but if I invite everyone else around us into our party.
Extending the Date
Suggesting something (other than going back to someone’s place) after dinner like taking a walk, grabbing a drink, going for dessert, catching a movie, etc., is a solid indication that your date’s asking for an encore. “A guy like myself might ask a girl to spend more time with [him] if [he’s] not enjoying her company,” but if he’s willing to see things through to the end and extend the date past the first location of a bar or coffee shop, there’s a good sign he’s making the time because he wants to see where things are going.
Suggesting Another Date
“Sometimes I get so excited during a first date I play my cards by suggesting other things we should do together ,” though the timing may not be that immediate. A common time to suggest another date is at the end of the date. Though some may say this merely to be friendly before making a quick exit, “it can’t be bad if the guy is enthusiastic enough to suggest a second date. He just has to make good on his word.”